I want to share something that touched me deeply—a YouTube video a friend sent me. It explains some unusual traits that I have carried around my entire life, but as I watched, I felt compelled to share my own experiences. The traits, described as “superpowers” are incredible gifts. Yet, if they are not understood or healed from, they can become heavy burdens. Why? Because every soul longs for authentic connection. And these superpower traits, as powerful as they are, can lead to isolation and unfulfilled relationships—the exact opposite of what our hearts crave.
I wrote a blog post today about how my soul whispered to me, ‘Remember.’
Remember who you are. Remember your truth.
What often blocks women from fully remembering their power isn’t a lack of effort, determination, or capability—it’s a misalignment between the life they’re living and their soul’s true journey. When our actions, choices, or environments aren’t in harmony with who we are at our core, we feel stuck, exhausted, and unseen. Healing and self-alignment clear the path for authentic impact.
I’ve spent my entire life trying to sift what’s real from what isn’t. As a child, I begged the adults around me to help me make sense of things my young mind couldn’t understand. I didn’t have an emotionally regulated mother to guide me, teach me, or even model safety. That was the hardest part of growing up. I tried to behave well, but I was reckless and rebellious at times. My chameleon trait was a silent, misunderstood paradox! But inside, I was searching, always searching for the harmony I am speaking of.
Even in those early years, though, as I reflect on my experiences—those reckless, dangerous moments I disassociated from—they remind me that I was always miraculously protected. I knew, even as a small child, that I was watched over. Guardian angels, unseen but real, were keeping me safe.
Years later, as a grown adult, I filled out a questionnaire—a simple form, yet it held weight I wasn’t expecting. I didn’t know what type it was, but as I checked every box that applied to me, the therapist sat silently. Her quiet felt like disbelief. How could they understand? When you’ve lived a life full of experiences that sound “crazy” to others, it’s easy to feel invisible.
And then she said something that stopped me in my tracks: I believe you.
Those words—simple, but powerful—validated my life. They reminded me that even when the world doubts, I am seen. And I want you to hear that too: You are not alone. Whatever you feel, whatever you have experienced—it is valid.
Learning to honor yourself is not an easy journey. It’s a brutal, yet beautiful and empowering process. Think of it like a Healing Spartan Race: grueling, challenging, and relentless—but transformative.
Addictions—emotional or otherwise—are tough. My own has been people-pleasing. I follow the AA tradition and proudly call myself a recovering people-pleaser. It takes day-by-day effort, self-reflection, and deep commitment—but I am stronger for it.
To the women reading this: your soul knows the truth. Your heart knows what it needs. And if you are seeking guidance, a teacher, or someone to help you remember your own light without ambiguity—I am here.
I honor your journey, your struggles, and your growth.
And I want you to know, from one heart to another, that healing, remembering, and authentic connection are possible.
You are worthy.
You are seen.
The world may not always see you, but your soul knows the way. It’s time to find a safe space to feed your soul.